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Tough Times Toolkit

Life got you down? Grab your Tough Times Toolkit! It's your emotional first aid kit, packed with resources to soothe, empower, and help you rise above those challenges.

Inside, you'll find:

  • Books: Mind-blowing reads to shift your perspective.

  • Podcasts: Inspiring stories and expert advice.

  • Websites: Supportive communities and quick doses of inspiration.

  • Groups: Connect with others who get it.

  • Journal Prompts: Dive deep and explore your inner world.

  • And more! Constantly updated with new tools and inspiration.

 

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Tough Times Toolkit

First Aid for Feelings
Resource Type
Resource Name
Description
Contact Info/Link
Specific Issues
The World Wildlife Fund (WWF)
Works to conserve nature and reduce threats to the diversity of life on Earth
worldwildlife.org
Focuses on conservation, climate change, and sustainable development
Specific Issues
The Ocean Conservancy
Works to protect the ocean from today's greatest global challenges
oceanconservancy.org
Focuses on ocean conservation, pollution prevention, and sustainable fisheries
Specific Issues
The Endangered Species Coalition
Advocates for the protection of endangered species and their habitats
endangered.org
Works to protect wildlife and prevent extinction
Local Resources
Animal Shelters & Rescues
Provide shelter, care, and adoption services for homeless animals
Search for local shelters and rescues online
Offer a variety of animals, including dogs, cats, and small animals
Local Resources
Animal Control
Enforces animal control laws and provides services like stray animal pickup and licensing
Contact your local government
May offer resources on responsible pet ownership and animal welfare
Local Resources
Veterinarians
Provide medical care for animals
Search for local veterinarians online
Offer a range of services, including vaccinations, preventative care, and emergency treatment
Local Resources
Animal Trainers & Behaviorists
Help address animal behavior issues and promote positive training methods
Search for certified trainers and behaviorists online
Can help with issues like aggression, anxiety, and house training
Pet Loss & Grief
The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB)
Provides support and resources for people grieving the loss of a pet
aplb.org
Offers support groups, articles, and a helpline
General Support & Advocacy
PFLAG
Support and advocacy for LGBTQ+ people and their families, including non-binary individuals
pflag.org
Provides support groups, resources, and education
General Support & Advocacy
The National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE)
Advocates for transgender equality, including non-binary people
transequality.org
Provides resources, news, and a legal information center
General Support & Advocacy
The Human Rights Campaign (HRC)
Advocates for LGBTQ+ equality, including non-binary people
hrc.org
Offers resources, news, and a community action center
Mental Health
The Jed Foundation
Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults, including non-binary youth
jedfoundation.org
Offers programs, resources, and a mental health resource center
Mental Health
The National Queer and Trans Therapists of Color Network (NQTTCN)
Directory of queer and trans therapists of color, including those who specialize in working with non-binary individuals
nqttcn.com
Provides access to culturally competent mental health care
Specific Issues
The National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR)
Legal advocacy and resources for LGBTQ+ people and their families, including non-binary individuals
nclrights.org
Focuses on legal issues affecting the LGBTQ+ community
Specific Issues
Lambda Legal
Defends the civil rights of LGBTQ+ people and people living with HIV, including non-binary individuals
lambdalegal.org
Provides legal representation and advocacy
Specific Issues
The Transgender Law Center (TLC)
Advocates for transgender rights and equality, including non-binary people
transgenderlawcenter.org
Provides legal services, policy advocacy, and community organizing
Specific Issues
The Sylvia Rivera Law Project (SRLP)
Provides legal services and advocacy for low-income transgender people and people of color, including non-binary individuals
srlp.org
Focuses on the intersection of trans rights and social justice
Resources & Articles
"Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity" edited by Micah Rajunov and Scott Duane
Collection of essays by non-binary people about their experiences
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers diverse perspectives on non-binary identity
Resources & Articles
"Beyond the Gender Binary" by Alok Vaid-Menon
Explores the limitations of the gender binary and celebrates gender diversity
Bookstores, online retailers
Challenges traditional notions of gender and promotes self-expression
Resources & Articles
"They/Them/Their: A Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns" by Tristan Jimerson
Provides information and guidance on using non-binary pronouns
Bookstores, online retailers
Promotes respect and inclusivity for non-binary people
Resources & Articles
"The Gender Book" by Mel Reiff Hill
Explores the spectrum of gender identity and expression
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers a comprehensive guide to understanding gender
Resource Type
Resource Name
Description
Link/Source
Notes
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP)
Works to ensure the political, educational, social, and economic equality of rights of all persons and 1 to eliminate racial hatred and racial discrimination 2
naacp.org
Focuses on civil rights and racial justice
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The Anti-Defamation League (ADL)
Fights antisemitism and all forms of bigotry, defends democratic ideals, and protects civil rights for all
adl.org
Provides education, advocacy, and resources on diversity and inclusion
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC)
Monitors hate groups and extremist organizations and fights for social justice
splcenter.org
Provides legal representation and advocacy for victims of hate crimes and discrimination
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The Human Rights Campaign (HRC)
Works to achieve equality for LGBTQ+ people through advocacy, education, and litigation
hrc.org
Focuses on LGBTQ+ rights and equality
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The National Organization for Women (NOW)
Advocates for women's rights and equality
now.org
Focuses on a wide range of issues, including reproductive rights, economic justice, and violence against women
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The National Disability Rights Network (NDRN)
Advocates for the rights of people with disabilities
ndrn.org
Provides legal representation and advocacy for people with disabilities
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The National Association of Latino Elected and Appointed Officials (NALEO) Educational Fund
Promotes the full participation of Latinos in the American political process
naleo.org
Focuses on civic engagement and leadership development for Latinos
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The Asian Americans Advancing Justice (AAJC)
Advocates for civil and human rights for Asian Americans and to combat anti-Asian violence
advancingjustice-aajc.org
Provides legal services, education, and advocacy for Asian Americans
Organizations & Advocacy Groups
The National Congress of American Indians (NCAI)
Advocates for the rights and interests of Native Americans and Alaska Natives
ncai.org
Represents tribal governments and promotes tribal sovereignty
Educational Resources
Diversity Best Practices
Provides research, best practices, and training on diversity and inclusion
diversitybestpractices.com
Offers resources for organizations and individuals
Educational Resources
The Kirwan Institute for the Study of Race and Ethnicity
Conducts research and provides education on race, ethnicity, and inclusion
kirwaninstitute.osu.edu
Offers reports, publications, and training programs
Educational Resources
The Center for the Study of Hate and Extremism
Conducts research and provides education on hate crimes and extremism
cshe.csusb.edu
Offers data, analysis, and resources on hate and bias
Educational Resources
Teaching Tolerance
Provides free resources to educators to promote tolerance and respect in the classroom
tolerance.org
Offers lesson plans, articles, and multimedia resources
Educational Resources
The Museum of Tolerance
Museum dedicated to promoting tolerance and understanding
museumoftolerance.com
Offers exhibits, programs, and educational resources on diversity and human rights
Books & Articles
"Blindspot: Hidden Biases of Good People" by Mahzarin R. Banaji and Anthony G. Greenwald
Explores unconscious bias and its impact on our behavior
Bookstores, online retailers
Provides insights into how our biases can affect our interactions with others
Books & Articles
"Between the World and Me" by Ta-Nehisi Coates
Powerful letter to his son about the realities of being Black in America
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers a personal and moving perspective on race and identity
Books & Articles
"So You Want to Talk About Race" by Ijeoma Oluo
Guide to navigating conversations about race and racism
Bookstores, online retailers
Provides practical tools and insights for engaging in meaningful dialogue
Books & Articles
"How to Be an Antiracist" by Ibram X. Kendi
Argues that the opposite of racist isn't "not racist" but "antiracist"
Bookstores, online retailers
Challenges readers to actively combat racism and promote equality
Books & Articles
"The New Jim Crow" by Michelle Alexander
Examines the mass incarceration of Black Americans and its impact on society
Bookstores, online retailers
Provides a critical analysis of the criminal justice system and its role in perpetuating racial inequality
Films & Documentaries
"13th" (Netflix)
Documentary about the history of racial inequality and mass incarceration in the United States
Netflix
Powerful and informative film about the legacy of slavery and its impact on the present
Films & Documentaries
"I Am Not Your Negro" (Amazon Prime)
Documentary based on James Baldwin's unfinished manuscript about race in America
Amazon Prime
Offers a profound and insightful perspective on race and identity
Films & Documentaries
"The Hate U Give" (Hulu)
Film adaptation of the young adult novel about a Black teenager who witnesses the fatal shooting of her friend by police
Hulu
Explores themes of race, police brutality, and activism
Films & Documentaries
"Moonlight" (Netflix)
Coming-of-age story about a young Black man growing up in Miami
Netflix
Offers a nuanced and moving portrayal of identity, sexuality, and race
Films & Documentaries
"When They See Us" (Netflix)
Miniseries about the Central Park Five, five young men wrongly convicted of a crime
Netflix
Highlights the injustices of the criminal justice system and the impact of racial bias
Resource Type
Resource Name
Description
Link/Source
Notes
Mental Health
The Jed Foundation
Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults
jedfoundation.org
Offers programs, resources, and a mental health resource center
Mental Health
The Trevor Project
Crisis support and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth
thetrevorproject.org
24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources
Mental Health
Child Mind Institute
Information and resources on child and adolescent mental health
childmind.org
Provides articles, guides, and a symptom checker
Mental Health
MentalHealth.gov - Children and Adolescent Mental Health
Government resources on child and adolescent mental health
mentalhealth.gov
Offers information, treatment locators, and support
Mental Health
The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
Support, education, and advocacy for people with mental illness and their families, including youth
nami.org
Offers support groups, programs, and resources
Books & Articles
"Iron John" by Robert Bly
Explores the myths and archetypes of masculinity
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers insights into the male psyche and journey of self-discovery
Books & Articles
"King, Warrior, Magician, Lover" by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette
Explores the four archetypes of mature masculinity
Bookstores, online retailers
Provides a framework for understanding and integrating different aspects of masculinity
Books & Articles
"The Male Brain" by Louann Brizendine
Explores the unique characteristics and functioning of the male brain
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers insights into men's behavior and communication styles
Resource Type
Resource Name
Description
Link/Source
Notes
Mental Health
National Women's Health Network
Information and resources on women's health, including mental health
nwhn.org
Provides articles, advocacy, and a helpline
Mental Health
The Women's Therapy Centre
Therapy and support groups for women
thewomenstherapycentre.com
Offers specialized services for women's mental health concerns
Mental Health
The Loveland Foundation
Provides therapy and support for Black women and girls
thelovelandfoundation.org
Focuses on healing and empowerment for Black women
Mental Health
The Jed Foundation
Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults
jedfoundation.org
Includes information and resources specifically for young women
Support Groups
Girls Inc.
Inspiring all girls to be strong, smart, and bold
girlsinc.org
Offers programs and support for girls' empowerment and development
Support Groups
The National Organization for Women (NOW)
Advocates for women's rights and equality
now.org
Focuses on a wide range of issues, including reproductive rights, economic justice, and violence against women
Support Groups
Planned Parenthood
Provides reproductive health care and education
plannedparenthood.org
Offers a range of services, including contraception, STI testing, and abortion care
Specific Issues
The National Domestic Violence Hotline
Support for victims and survivors of domestic violence
thehotline.org
Offers a 24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources
Specific Issues
The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN)
Support for survivors of sexual assault
rainn.org
Provides a 24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources
Specific Issues
The National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA)
Support and resources for people with eating disorders
nationaleatingdisorders.org
Offers information, a helpline, and treatment referrals
Specific Issues
The Endometriosis Foundation of America
Information and support for women with endometriosis
endometriosisfoundation.org
Provides research updates, patient resources, and support programs
Books & Articles
"The Feminine Mystique" by Betty Friedan
Seminal work on women's liberation and the challenges of traditional gender roles
Bookstores, online retailers
Sparked the second wave of feminism
Books & Articles
"Women Who Run with the Wolves" by Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Explores the archetypes of the Wild Woman and the power of feminine energy
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers a Jungian perspective on women's psychology
Books & Articles
"Untamed" by Glennon Doyle
Encourages women to embrace their true selves and break free from societal expectations
Bookstores, online retailers
Inspiring memoir about self-discovery and empowerment
Books & Articles
"The Body Is Not an Apology" by Sonya Renee Taylor
Promotes body positivity and self-love
Bookstores, online retailers
Challenges societal beauty standards and celebrates diversity
Resource Type
Resource Name
Description
Link/Source
Notes
General Support & Advocacy
The Trevor Project
Crisis support and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth
thetrevorproject.org
24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources
General Support & Advocacy
GLAAD
Promotes LGBTQ+ acceptance through media advocacy and education
glaad.org
Provides resources, news, and a media reference guide
General Support & Advocacy
Human Rights Campaign (HRC)
Advocates for LGBTQ+ equality through lobbying, education, and litigation
hrc.org
Offers resources, news, and a community action center
General Support & Advocacy
PFLAG
Support and advocacy for LGBTQ+ people and their families
pflag.org
Provides support groups, resources, and education
General Support & Advocacy
The National LGBTQ Task Force
Advocates for LGBTQ+ rights and equality
thetaskforce.org
Focuses on policy advocacy and community organizing
Mental Health
The Jed Foundation
Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults, including LGBTQ+ youth
jedfoundation.org
Offers programs, resources, and a mental health resource center
Mental Health
The National Queer and Trans Therapists of Color Network (NQTTCN)
Directory of queer and trans therapists of color
nqttcn.com
Provides access to culturally competent mental health care
Mental Health
The Association of LGBTQ+ Psychiatrists
Professional organization for LGBTQ+ psychiatrists
aglp.org
Offers resources, training, and a provider directory
Mental Health
The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN)
Works to create safe and inclusive schools for LGBTQ+ students
glsen.org
Provides resources, training, and advocacy for LGBTQ+ youth
Specific Issues
The National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR)
Legal advocacy and resources for LGBTQ+ people and their families
nclrights.org
Focuses on legal issues affecting the LGBTQ+ community
Specific Issues
Lambda Legal
Defends the civil rights of LGBTQ+ people and people living with HIV
lambdalegal.org
Provides legal representation and advocacy
Specific Issues
The Transgender Law Center (TLC)
Advocates for transgender rights and equality
transgenderlawcenter.org
Provides legal services, policy advocacy, and community organizing
Specific Issues
The Sylvia Rivera Law Project (SRLP)
Provides legal services and advocacy for low-income transgender people and people of color
srlp.org
Focuses on the intersection of trans rights and social justice
Specific Issues
The National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE)
Advocates for transgender equality through policy advocacy, education, and community organizing
transequality.org
Provides resources, news, and a legal information center
Youth Resources
The It Gets Better Project
Uplifting videos and stories for LGBTQ+ youth
itgetsbetter.org
Offers hope and encouragement to LGBTQ+ young people
Youth Resources
GLSEN's Safe Space Kit
Resources for creating safe and inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+ youth
glsen.org
Provides posters, stickers, and information for educators and students
Youth Resources
The Trevor Project's Guide to Being an Ally to Transgender and Nonbinary Youth
Tips for supporting transgender and nonbinary youth
thetrevorproject.org
Offers guidance on pronouns, terminology, and creating safe spaces
Books & Articles
"Stonewall" by Martin Duberman
History of the Stonewall Riots and the LGBTQ+ rights movement
Bookstores, online retailers
Provides context and understanding of LGBTQ+ history
Books & Articles
"Sister Outsider" by Audre Lorde
Collection of essays and speeches on feminism, racism, and homophobia
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers powerful insights on intersectionality and social justice
Books & Articles
"Gender Trouble" by Judith Butler
Seminal work on gender theory and performativity
Bookstores, online retailers
Challenges traditional notions of gender and identity
Books & Articles
"Redefining Realness" by Janet Mock
Memoir about growing up transgender and finding your voice
Bookstores, online retailers
Offers a personal and powerful perspective on transgender identity
Resource Type
Resource Name
Description
Link/Source
Notes
General Support & Advocacy
The Trevor Project
Crisis support and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth, including non-binary youth
thetrevorproject.org
24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources
Self-Help Resources
Trauma-Informed Yoga
Gentle yoga practices that can help regulate the nervous system and promote healing
Trauma Center Trauma-Sensitive Yoga
Offers a safe and supportive environment for trauma survivors
Self-Help Resources
Mindfulness Practices
Cultivating present moment awareness and self-compassion
Mindfulness apps, YouTube channels
Can help reduce anxiety and increase emotional regulation
Creative Expression
Art Therapy
Using art to express emotions and process trauma
Art therapy organizations, therapists
Provides a non-verbal outlet for healing
Creative Expression
Writing Therapy
Writing about traumatic experiences to promote healing and self-discovery
Writing therapy organizations, therapists
Can be done through journaling, poetry, or storytelling
Creative Expression
Music Therapy
Using music to process emotions, reduce stress, and promote relaxation
Music therapy organizations, therapists
Can involve listening to music, playing instruments, or singing
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Disclaimer:
The information and resources provided by this service are intended for general informational purposes only and do not constitute professional advice. We are not licensed or certified mental health professionals, and our responses should not be considered a substitute for consulting a qualified healthcare provider. Any reliance you place on such information is strictly at your own risk. By using this service, you agree to release and discharge us from any legal responsibility or liability for the outcome of your reliance on the information provided. If you are experiencing mental health issues or crises, we strongly recommend seeking the guidance of a licensed mental health professional.

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