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Tough Times Toolkit
Life got you down? Grab your Tough Times Toolkit! It's your emotional first aid kit, packed with resources to soothe, empower, and help you rise above those challenges.
Inside, you'll find:
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Books: Mind-blowing reads to shift your perspective.
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Podcasts: Inspiring stories and expert advice.
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Websites: Supportive communities and quick doses of inspiration.
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Groups: Connect with others who get it.
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Journal Prompts: Dive deep and explore your inner world.
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And more! Constantly updated with new tools and inspiration.
Grab your Toolkit and turn those challenges into triumphs! ✨

Tough Times Toolkit
First Aid for Feelings | Resource Type | Resource Name | Description | Contact Info/Link |
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Specific Issues | The World Wildlife Fund (WWF) | Works to conserve nature and reduce threats to the diversity of life on Earth | worldwildlife.org | Focuses on conservation, climate change, and sustainable development |
Specific Issues | The Ocean Conservancy | Works to protect the ocean from today's greatest global challenges | oceanconservancy.org | Focuses on ocean conservation, pollution prevention, and sustainable fisheries |
Specific Issues | The Endangered Species Coalition | Advocates for the protection of endangered species and their habitats | endangered.org | Works to protect wildlife and prevent extinction |
Local Resources | Animal Shelters & Rescues | Provide shelter, care, and adoption services for homeless animals | Search for local shelters and rescues online | Offer a variety of animals, including dogs, cats, and small animals |
Local Resources | Animal Control | Enforces animal control laws and provides services like stray animal pickup and licensing | Contact your local government | May offer resources on responsible pet ownership and animal welfare |
Local Resources | Veterinarians | Provide medical care for animals | Search for local veterinarians online | Offer a range of services, including vaccinations, preventative care, and emergency treatment |
Local Resources | Animal Trainers & Behaviorists | Help address animal behavior issues and promote positive training methods | Search for certified trainers and behaviorists online | Can help with issues like aggression, anxiety, and house training |
Pet Loss & Grief | The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB) | Provides support and resources for people grieving the loss of a pet | aplb.org | Offers support groups, articles, and a helpline |
General Support & Advocacy | PFLAG | Support and advocacy for LGBTQ+ people and their families, including non-binary individuals | pflag.org | Provides support groups, resources, and education |
General Support & Advocacy | The National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE) | Advocates for transgender equality, including non-binary people | transequality.org | Provides resources, news, and a legal information center |
General Support & Advocacy | The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) | Advocates for LGBTQ+ equality, including non-binary people | hrc.org | Offers resources, news, and a community action center |
Mental Health | The Jed Foundation | Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults, including non-binary youth | jedfoundation.org | Offers programs, resources, and a mental health resource center |
Mental Health | The National Queer and Trans Therapists of Color Network (NQTTCN) | Directory of queer and trans therapists of color, including those who specialize in working with non-binary individuals | nqttcn.com | Provides access to culturally competent mental health care |
Specific Issues | The National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) | Legal advocacy and resources for LGBTQ+ people and their families, including non-binary individuals | nclrights.org | Focuses on legal issues affecting the LGBTQ+ community |
Specific Issues | Lambda Legal | Defends the civil rights of LGBTQ+ people and people living with HIV, including non-binary individuals | lambdalegal.org | Provides legal representation and advocacy |
Specific Issues | The Transgender Law Center (TLC) | Advocates for transgender rights and equality, including non-binary people | transgenderlawcenter.org | Provides legal services, policy advocacy, and community organizing |
Specific Issues | The Sylvia Rivera Law Project (SRLP) | Provides legal services and advocacy for low-income transgender people and people of color, including non-binary individuals | srlp.org | Focuses on the intersection of trans rights and social justice |
Resources & Articles | "Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity" edited by Micah Rajunov and Scott Duane | Collection of essays by non-binary people about their experiences | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers diverse perspectives on non-binary identity |
Resources & Articles | "Beyond the Gender Binary" by Alok Vaid-Menon | Explores the limitations of the gender binary and celebrates gender diversity | Bookstores, online retailers | Challenges traditional notions of gender and promotes self-expression |
Resources & Articles | "They/Them/Their: A Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns" by Tristan Jimerson | Provides information and guidance on using non-binary pronouns | Bookstores, online retailers | Promotes respect and inclusivity for non-binary people |
Resources & Articles | "The Gender Book" by Mel Reiff Hill | Explores the spectrum of gender identity and expression | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers a comprehensive guide to understanding gender |
Resource Type | Resource Name | Description | Link/Source | Notes |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) | Works to ensure the political, educational, social, and economic equality of rights of all persons and 1 to eliminate racial hatred and racial discrimination 2 | naacp.org | Focuses on civil rights and racial justice |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The Anti-Defamation League (ADL) | Fights antisemitism and all forms of bigotry, defends democratic ideals, and protects civil rights for all | adl.org | Provides education, advocacy, and resources on diversity and inclusion |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) | Monitors hate groups and extremist organizations and fights for social justice | splcenter.org | Provides legal representation and advocacy for victims of hate crimes and discrimination |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) | Works to achieve equality for LGBTQ+ people through advocacy, education, and litigation | hrc.org | Focuses on LGBTQ+ rights and equality |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The National Organization for Women (NOW) | Advocates for women's rights and equality | now.org | Focuses on a wide range of issues, including reproductive rights, economic justice, and violence against women |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The National Disability Rights Network (NDRN) | Advocates for the rights of people with disabilities | ndrn.org | Provides legal representation and advocacy for people with disabilities |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The National Association of Latino Elected and Appointed Officials (NALEO) Educational Fund | Promotes the full participation of Latinos in the American political process | naleo.org | Focuses on civic engagement and leadership development for Latinos |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The Asian Americans Advancing Justice (AAJC) | Advocates for civil and human rights for Asian Americans and to combat anti-Asian violence | advancingjustice-aajc.org | Provides legal services, education, and advocacy for Asian Americans |
Organizations & Advocacy Groups | The National Congress of American Indians (NCAI) | Advocates for the rights and interests of Native Americans and Alaska Natives | ncai.org | Represents tribal governments and promotes tribal sovereignty |
Educational Resources | Diversity Best Practices | Provides research, best practices, and training on diversity and inclusion | diversitybestpractices.com | Offers resources for organizations and individuals |
Educational Resources | The Kirwan Institute for the Study of Race and Ethnicity | Conducts research and provides education on race, ethnicity, and inclusion | kirwaninstitute.osu.edu | Offers reports, publications, and training programs |
Educational Resources | The Center for the Study of Hate and Extremism | Conducts research and provides education on hate crimes and extremism | cshe.csusb.edu | Offers data, analysis, and resources on hate and bias |
Educational Resources | Teaching Tolerance | Provides free resources to educators to promote tolerance and respect in the classroom | tolerance.org | Offers lesson plans, articles, and multimedia resources |
Educational Resources | The Museum of Tolerance | Museum dedicated to promoting tolerance and understanding | museumoftolerance.com | Offers exhibits, programs, and educational resources on diversity and human rights |
Books & Articles | "Blindspot: Hidden Biases of Good People" by Mahzarin R. Banaji and Anthony G. Greenwald | Explores unconscious bias and its impact on our behavior | Bookstores, online retailers | Provides insights into how our biases can affect our interactions with others |
Books & Articles | "Between the World and Me" by Ta-Nehisi Coates | Powerful letter to his son about the realities of being Black in America | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers a personal and moving perspective on race and identity |
Books & Articles | "So You Want to Talk About Race" by Ijeoma Oluo | Guide to navigating conversations about race and racism | Bookstores, online retailers | Provides practical tools and insights for engaging in meaningful dialogue |
Books & Articles | "How to Be an Antiracist" by Ibram X. Kendi | Argues that the opposite of racist isn't "not racist" but "antiracist" | Bookstores, online retailers | Challenges readers to actively combat racism and promote equality |
Books & Articles | "The New Jim Crow" by Michelle Alexander | Examines the mass incarceration of Black Americans and its impact on society | Bookstores, online retailers | Provides a critical analysis of the criminal justice system and its role in perpetuating racial inequality |
Films & Documentaries | "13th" (Netflix) | Documentary about the history of racial inequality and mass incarceration in the United States | Netflix | Powerful and informative film about the legacy of slavery and its impact on the present |
Films & Documentaries | "I Am Not Your Negro" (Amazon Prime) | Documentary based on James Baldwin's unfinished manuscript about race in America | Amazon Prime | Offers a profound and insightful perspective on race and identity |
Films & Documentaries | "The Hate U Give" (Hulu) | Film adaptation of the young adult novel about a Black teenager who witnesses the fatal shooting of her friend by police | Hulu | Explores themes of race, police brutality, and activism |
Films & Documentaries | "Moonlight" (Netflix) | Coming-of-age story about a young Black man growing up in Miami | Netflix | Offers a nuanced and moving portrayal of identity, sexuality, and race |
Films & Documentaries | "When They See Us" (Netflix) | Miniseries about the Central Park Five, five young men wrongly convicted of a crime | Netflix | Highlights the injustices of the criminal justice system and the impact of racial bias |
Resource Type | Resource Name | Description | Link/Source | Notes |
Mental Health | The Jed Foundation | Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults | jedfoundation.org | Offers programs, resources, and a mental health resource center |
Mental Health | The Trevor Project | Crisis support and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth | thetrevorproject.org | 24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources |
Mental Health | Child Mind Institute | Information and resources on child and adolescent mental health | childmind.org | Provides articles, guides, and a symptom checker |
Mental Health | MentalHealth.gov - Children and Adolescent Mental Health | Government resources on child and adolescent mental health | mentalhealth.gov | Offers information, treatment locators, and support |
Mental Health | The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) | Support, education, and advocacy for people with mental illness and their families, including youth | nami.org | Offers support groups, programs, and resources |
Books & Articles | "Iron John" by Robert Bly | Explores the myths and archetypes of masculinity | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers insights into the male psyche and journey of self-discovery |
Books & Articles | "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover" by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette | Explores the four archetypes of mature masculinity | Bookstores, online retailers | Provides a framework for understanding and integrating different aspects of masculinity |
Books & Articles | "The Male Brain" by Louann Brizendine | Explores the unique characteristics and functioning of the male brain | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers insights into men's behavior and communication styles |
Resource Type | Resource Name | Description | Link/Source | Notes |
Mental Health | National Women's Health Network | Information and resources on women's health, including mental health | nwhn.org | Provides articles, advocacy, and a helpline |
Mental Health | The Women's Therapy Centre | Therapy and support groups for women | thewomenstherapycentre.com | Offers specialized services for women's mental health concerns |
Mental Health | The Loveland Foundation | Provides therapy and support for Black women and girls | thelovelandfoundation.org | Focuses on healing and empowerment for Black women |
Mental Health | The Jed Foundation | Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults | jedfoundation.org | Includes information and resources specifically for young women |
Support Groups | Girls Inc. | Inspiring all girls to be strong, smart, and bold | girlsinc.org | Offers programs and support for girls' empowerment and development |
Support Groups | The National Organization for Women (NOW) | Advocates for women's rights and equality | now.org | Focuses on a wide range of issues, including reproductive rights, economic justice, and violence against women |
Support Groups | Planned Parenthood | Provides reproductive health care and education | plannedparenthood.org | Offers a range of services, including contraception, STI testing, and abortion care |
Specific Issues | The National Domestic Violence Hotline | Support for victims and survivors of domestic violence | thehotline.org | Offers a 24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources |
Specific Issues | The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) | Support for survivors of sexual assault | rainn.org | Provides a 24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources |
Specific Issues | The National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) | Support and resources for people with eating disorders | nationaleatingdisorders.org | Offers information, a helpline, and treatment referrals |
Specific Issues | The Endometriosis Foundation of America | Information and support for women with endometriosis | endometriosisfoundation.org | Provides research updates, patient resources, and support programs |
Books & Articles | "The Feminine Mystique" by Betty Friedan | Seminal work on women's liberation and the challenges of traditional gender roles | Bookstores, online retailers | Sparked the second wave of feminism |
Books & Articles | "Women Who Run with the Wolves" by Clarissa Pinkola Estés | Explores the archetypes of the Wild Woman and the power of feminine energy | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers a Jungian perspective on women's psychology |
Books & Articles | "Untamed" by Glennon Doyle | Encourages women to embrace their true selves and break free from societal expectations | Bookstores, online retailers | Inspiring memoir about self-discovery and empowerment |
Books & Articles | "The Body Is Not an Apology" by Sonya Renee Taylor | Promotes body positivity and self-love | Bookstores, online retailers | Challenges societal beauty standards and celebrates diversity |
Resource Type | Resource Name | Description | Link/Source | Notes |
General Support & Advocacy | The Trevor Project | Crisis support and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth | thetrevorproject.org | 24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources |
General Support & Advocacy | GLAAD | Promotes LGBTQ+ acceptance through media advocacy and education | glaad.org | Provides resources, news, and a media reference guide |
General Support & Advocacy | Human Rights Campaign (HRC) | Advocates for LGBTQ+ equality through lobbying, education, and litigation | hrc.org | Offers resources, news, and a community action center |
General Support & Advocacy | PFLAG | Support and advocacy for LGBTQ+ people and their families | pflag.org | Provides support groups, resources, and education |
General Support & Advocacy | The National LGBTQ Task Force | Advocates for LGBTQ+ rights and equality | thetaskforce.org | Focuses on policy advocacy and community organizing |
Mental Health | The Jed Foundation | Resources and support for emotional health and suicide prevention in teens and young adults, including LGBTQ+ youth | jedfoundation.org | Offers programs, resources, and a mental health resource center |
Mental Health | The National Queer and Trans Therapists of Color Network (NQTTCN) | Directory of queer and trans therapists of color | nqttcn.com | Provides access to culturally competent mental health care |
Mental Health | The Association of LGBTQ+ Psychiatrists | Professional organization for LGBTQ+ psychiatrists | aglp.org | Offers resources, training, and a provider directory |
Mental Health | The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN) | Works to create safe and inclusive schools for LGBTQ+ students | glsen.org | Provides resources, training, and advocacy for LGBTQ+ youth |
Specific Issues | The National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) | Legal advocacy and resources for LGBTQ+ people and their families | nclrights.org | Focuses on legal issues affecting the LGBTQ+ community |
Specific Issues | Lambda Legal | Defends the civil rights of LGBTQ+ people and people living with HIV | lambdalegal.org | Provides legal representation and advocacy |
Specific Issues | The Transgender Law Center (TLC) | Advocates for transgender rights and equality | transgenderlawcenter.org | Provides legal services, policy advocacy, and community organizing |
Specific Issues | The Sylvia Rivera Law Project (SRLP) | Provides legal services and advocacy for low-income transgender people and people of color | srlp.org | Focuses on the intersection of trans rights and social justice |
Specific Issues | The National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE) | Advocates for transgender equality through policy advocacy, education, and community organizing | transequality.org | Provides resources, news, and a legal information center |
Youth Resources | The It Gets Better Project | Uplifting videos and stories for LGBTQ+ youth | itgetsbetter.org | Offers hope and encouragement to LGBTQ+ young people |
Youth Resources | GLSEN's Safe Space Kit | Resources for creating safe and inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+ youth | glsen.org | Provides posters, stickers, and information for educators and students |
Youth Resources | The Trevor Project's Guide to Being an Ally to Transgender and Nonbinary Youth | Tips for supporting transgender and nonbinary youth | thetrevorproject.org | Offers guidance on pronouns, terminology, and creating safe spaces |
Books & Articles | "Stonewall" by Martin Duberman | History of the Stonewall Riots and the LGBTQ+ rights movement | Bookstores, online retailers | Provides context and understanding of LGBTQ+ history |
Books & Articles | "Sister Outsider" by Audre Lorde | Collection of essays and speeches on feminism, racism, and homophobia | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers powerful insights on intersectionality and social justice |
Books & Articles | "Gender Trouble" by Judith Butler | Seminal work on gender theory and performativity | Bookstores, online retailers | Challenges traditional notions of gender and identity |
Books & Articles | "Redefining Realness" by Janet Mock | Memoir about growing up transgender and finding your voice | Bookstores, online retailers | Offers a personal and powerful perspective on transgender identity |
Resource Type | Resource Name | Description | Link/Source | Notes |
General Support & Advocacy | The Trevor Project | Crisis support and suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth, including non-binary youth | thetrevorproject.org | 24/7 hotline, online chat, and resources |
Self-Help Resources | Trauma-Informed Yoga | Gentle yoga practices that can help regulate the nervous system and promote healing | Trauma Center Trauma-Sensitive Yoga | Offers a safe and supportive environment for trauma survivors |
Self-Help Resources | Mindfulness Practices | Cultivating present moment awareness and self-compassion | Mindfulness apps, YouTube channels | Can help reduce anxiety and increase emotional regulation |
Creative Expression | Art Therapy | Using art to express emotions and process trauma | Art therapy organizations, therapists | Provides a non-verbal outlet for healing |
Creative Expression | Writing Therapy | Writing about traumatic experiences to promote healing and self-discovery | Writing therapy organizations, therapists | Can be done through journaling, poetry, or storytelling |
Creative Expression | Music Therapy | Using music to process emotions, reduce stress, and promote relaxation | Music therapy organizations, therapists | Can involve listening to music, playing instruments, or singing |
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